The People on the Subway

Tuesday, August 30, 2005

These were the people I observed on my subway train today:

* A young woman applying mascara while looking at her reflection in the back of her iPod. Kudows for ingenuity.

* A man in a suit clutching his briefcase to his chest as if his newborn child was in it and quickly darting around the subway looking for a mythical attacker, indicating he must normally take a taxi to work.

* A woman grabbing the overhead bar while reading The Wall Street Journal and sheltering an iced Dunkin Donuts coffee between her flip flopped feet. Very impressive!

* An older woman with remnants of her breakfast still on her chin.

* A man reading an Arab newspaper and another man reading a Japanese paper, but looking at the comics.

* An unwell man steps on the train and SHOUTS nonsense about God while staring out the dark window, he yells, "God's a pretty God, yeah he's pretty. God is a princess. An angel." The man standing near him jumps, a teenage couple laughs, the boyfriend mimicking the "he's pretty" part but looking more like Bernie Mac than the screamer and the iPod woman puts up the volume on her mp3 player. Luckily the man got off at 28th street, the following stop. The train is eerily silent in his absence.
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Last night while coming home from the Cheesecake Factory (yum) for Yellow's birthday dinner, I met two men coming back from the U.S. Open. They asked me if I liked living in the city and if I felt safe etc (yes to both). When they heard that I work and am a student, they asked me if I was an actress. I think this is funny. They are not the first to assume that I'm a struggling actress trying to make it in the city. I'm not sure if I'm flattered that they think I can be an actress or annoyed that they are assuming that I'm not capable of a professional/corporate job and am going for my master's degree. I usually try to make it clear right away that I'm in Graduate school and not an undergrad, but people hear NYU and because I sometimes look younger, they just assume. Anyway, I digress, it was one of those fun quick subway meetings that happen in New York.

Afterwards I was walking to my apartment and contemplating eating my massive leftover sandwich tomorrow for lunch, when I spotted the group of homeless men in the little park near my place. They are often there drinking, laughing with each other and asking the passing cars and people for money. I sometimes give them my spare change, but they sort of leave me alone now that they know I'm not a tourist. Feeling guilty that I had a such a nice meal, I gave them my still warm leftovers.

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Dating Help, Book Reviews

Monday, August 29, 2005

Apparently people think I need some dating help, because for some reason I keep receiving singles books. Gee thanks, lol. I got a copy of Dating in America during a taping of The Tony Danza Show and then the author of How to Survive Dating kindly sent me a copy of her book and finally a friend and non-fiction guru gave me Why Men Prefer Bitches. Here are my reviews and what I thought was most useful:

The It's Just Lunch Guide to Dating in America by Andrea McGinty is quite long and tries to get the reader to join their nationwide dating service for "real" results. No thank you. However, lots of fun tips can be found in this book like first date ideas with actual locations in major cities to grab lunch, coffee, etc. Granted I didn't read this book cover to cover or beyond the first date part, but here is what I found most useful from the first section. First dates should be something that requires an activity or doing something new for both of you so you can share a new experience and have some fun doing something you normally would not do, like attempting a rock climbing wall, seeing a new exhibit, etc. I also like the book's philosophy that "it's just lunch." As in, do not put too much pressure on a first date or the first couple of meetings, just go in with the attitude that it's just lunch and cest le vie, which has always been my policy. The book also advises that you should never turn down a date with a reasonable man or woman. You should always go out on the date because you never know. And if anything, it keeps you in practice and can help you fine tune your skills for the real thing.

Book #2 How to Survive Dating: By Hundreds of Happy Singles Who Did and Some Things to Avoid from a Few Broken Hearts Who Didn't. Despite the how to in the title this book is not a guide but a collection of horror stories and success stories to learn from. There are quotes from singles and people in relationships from all over America and their experiences. Lots of their advice and confessions are simple and heartfelt, others are also really amusing in the I'm glad that wasn't me sense. One woman tells a story about how she went for coffee with a guy and when the bill came to the table he scrutinized it for several minutes and then said to her, "your half is $5.50." In response she scoops up the check saying "I don't do halves" and pays for the bill in full herself. There are lots of dating situations like these as well as recommendations for first dates and how not to scare someone off. Some of the advice they give are no-brainers, but the book goes really quickly just skipping from one bold quote and cartoon to another. A single friend of mine from college particularly liked reading the different entries when visiting my place this summer.

Last but not least, there is this gem by Sherry Argov, Why Men Prefer Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl-A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship. This book is hysterical and a really quick read. I did not plan on reading the whole thing, since I can never seem to read through most self-help books in their entirety, but with this one, I wanted to keep reading. The advice is simple and tells women to value their self first and be confident, then the men will follow or not, whatever. I like this more empowered take and really appreciated the humor.

Take a look at this quote:
"After a couple of dates, he goes out with the boys, comes in at midnight, calls her, and off she goes to see him. When a woman drives to see a man in the middle of the night, the only thing missing is a neon sign on the roof of her car that says WE DELIVER." lol!
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The Doggie Style Cart

Thursday, August 25, 2005

There are plenty of street vendors on every corner of New York City selling the usual stuff like hot dogs, ice cream or roasted nuts, but then there are also the more unique gyro carts, kebab stands, and the Baked Potato King near my office.
However, yesterday when walking in my neighborhood it was the first time I did a double take when passing by one particular cart designed for canine clientele only. The mobile cart is called Dog Town Bites and apparently offers passing dogs a quick snack to the more expensive gourmet treats listed on their menu. Prices range from $2-20. It also offers a quick water spray on hot days. Check out the snap shots I took. Do you believe it?
I saw the cart in the same spot a few times now, but I think the cart's owner had went inside the building it was parked in front of, otherwise I would have inquired more about it. I did find an official website: www.dogtownbites.com

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Tonight I'm heading to a Yankees game vs Kansas City! :)
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The Baxter

Tuesday, August 23, 2005

I attended an advance screening of the IFC film The Baxter. I know, I used to go to previews more often, hopefully in the Fall there will be more opportunities.

Anyway, the film chronicles the anxiety-ridden two weeks leading to the marriage of Elliot Sherman who is the quintessential "Baxter" -- which according to the film means the nice guy who never gets the girl.

Before the film started, the writer and star, Michael Showalter from the Comedy Central show Stella and Wet Hot American Summer, which he also wrote said that he loves the Meg Ryan/Tom Hanks movies and how they live happily ever after but he always wondered what happened to the poor Bill Pullman character. So he set out to write about the guy who loses "the girl" and his story to find happiness too.

The humor is quirky funny and easy going. I especially liked all the flashbacks of how The Baxter continually lost his previous girlfriends to the "leading actor" in some corny declaration of love, thus also making fun of romantic chick flicks in general.

The "hero" trying to steal The Baxter's fiancee is played by Justin Theroux (Charlie's Angels: Full Throttle) the cool and rich ex-boyfriend with a soft side. Michelle Williams from Dawson's Creek, with dark brown hair, stars as the female baxter and Showalter's office temp. Paul Rudd plays her boyfriend and is in a funny bar segment. Plus other Wet Hot American Summer actors can be spotted throughout in bit parts. Oh and there is a scene stealing midget (Peter Dinklage) who plays their gay wedding planner who frantically calls his assistant for help when trying to leave their Brooklyn apartment, it's pretty funny.

New Yorkers and Brooklynites will especially enjoy the fact that the entire film was shot in New York and you'll be sure to recognize famous places like Chumleys.

Overall it was a pretty funny and unexpectedly enjoyable film, which made me laugh. It was also short enough (90 mins) to keep me and my friend's attention through out. The official release date is Friday, Aug. 26, 2005.

The after party meanwhile with Michael Showalter & Justin Theroux in attendance was at the newly opened Home on 27th Street and 10th Ave. The place was decorated in crystal chandeliers with red lights and black cushioned ceilings and seats.
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My latest journalism clips

Monday, August 22, 2005


The Future of Cell Phone Viruses
By TaraMetBlog
Published Aug 19th '05

Worms, hackers and spam, oh my! Could they be invading your cell phone? Antivirus experts say it is possible and are questioning whether personal data entered into cell phones and PDA's can be stolen or infested now that minor security incidents are already being reported. (read more)


Broadway at Bat
Talent in Motion Magazine
Summer '05
The official Broadway Show League documentary is filming in the park (read more)
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Tara the Slouch

Friday, August 19, 2005

Growing up I was often complimented for my good posture, my mother never had to tell me to stop slouching or to sit up straight etc. Although she would often yell at me for sitting on my legs in weird twists and turns, I still do that too. I remember having a teacher or two comment, "that can't be comfortable" when I'd sit all twisted and pretzel like on the small hard wooden chair table things at school, lol. I think I do it to be taller though.

Anywho, back to the posture part. Although I never had a problem with it before it seems that I have been slouching a lot lately and when my mother and I were out to dinner she now said, "sit up, stop leaning over like that." It's true though, I can feel myself hunching over a lot lately. I hate this and now that I'm more conscious of it I see that I do it especially at work when bending over my keyboard to type. So this last week I've been making an effort to sit up straight and walk tall, etc. My back actually hurts as a result of keeping my back rim rod straight when it wants to slouch instead.

Even the big personal trainer dude at the gym mentioned I was slouching when doing some of the exercises. That was the last straw; I plan to do something about it. He suggested at night for 2 minutes I stand up against a wall, with my heels and head touching the flat surface and stand straight. He also said when walking I should stick my chest out, but I wouldn't want to poke someone's eye out or anything ;) hehe, just kidding. But it does make me look as if I'm strutting and thrusting my breasts out for attention, grr not cool. I'm sure doing my yoga classes again would help too.

Article: Posture checklist A good posture can greatly improve and prevent back problems. Try to follow these simple rules and your back will be grateful forever.
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Thursday Confession

Thursday, August 18, 2005

OK do not make fun of me. I swear I am a pretty cool person and I like normal music too, but my dad liked 70s classic country hits, so I grew up listening to Johnny Cash, Charlie Rich and hearing the famous old country hits whenever I was with him. Anyway, so here's my confession...I'm going to a Dolly Parton concert tonight at Radio City Music Hall.

Yes, I like Dolly Parton, even her films (9 to 5, Straight Talk, Steel Magnolias, Best Little Whore House in Texas). And a surprisingly few realize that she is the original writer and singer of "I Will Always Love You," later made famous by Whitney. Then she has hits like, "9 to 5," "Jolene," "Coat of Many Colors" (I loved hearing that song especially growing up, and would get angry that the kids made fun of her) "Islands in the Stream." OK I'm tapped out. Hopefully she'll sing her older hits like those, because I don't know any of her newer stuff.

Think of the funny tees that I can buy, because you know there has to be some funny saying stuff about her, um additional assets.

yee haw!

News: According to Forrester Research, only 2 percent of all online households use RSS to view blogs, news and Podcasts.

Link: Register for the national cell phone do not call list .
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My Morning: Carol Channing and Shelley Long

Monday, August 15, 2005

I often meet interesting characters while walking to and from places in the city. This morning was no exception. There was this elderly African American man, with a scraggly beard, dressed in shabby clothes, revealing that he was most likely homeless. He was carrying two large garbage bags and muttering "Carol Channing is garbage." Now, I don't know if he said Ms. Channing is garbage or that he had her garbage. I'm not certain, but the Carol Channing and garbage part was crystal clear. And of all the pseudo celebs to be muttering about, why her? LOL it was weird.

And while I was getting ready for work this morning Troop Beverly Hills was on TBS. As I watched over a bowl of Lucky Charms, I recalled the time I met Shelley Long in LA. A few years ago I had went to a taping of her failed WB show Kelly Kelly. It was pretty cute actually, but it didn't make it. Anyway, after the taping I sort of took my time leaving the audience area and waved hello to her, she waved back and so I asked her for an autograph explaining how I loved watching Troop Beverly Hills Growing up and The Money Pit. She signed my notebook and nicely chatted with me for a bit and even introduced me to her younger daughter who was on the set. In the episode I watched she had to do a fencing scene and Long mentioned that she had learned how to fence years ago when filming Outrageous Fortune with Bette Middler. So that's my Shelley Long story.

Oh and while I'm on a Shelley Long note, I was also a fan of the corny movie Don't Tell Her it's Me with Steve Guttenberg and Jami Gertz, however for some reason the DVD has been renamed The Boyfriend School. How weird is that? I don't get it.

Product Review: On an unrelated note, I had a $1 off coupon for Listerine Whitening mouth wash so I bought it. I like the blue mint one, and I thought this would be awesome cuz it could whiten too, but this stuff is horrible. It leaves an icky after taste. I have to rinse my mouth out with water afterward, otherwise if you swallow just some, it's very disgusting. It's like drinking peroxide. Hopefully it is at least whitening my teeth, but I'm not using it twice a day like it says to since it's so nasty. Beware!

Link: First there was the Live Strong bracelets but now check out the 7 Deadly Sins Wristbands
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Weekend Getaway

Friday, August 12, 2005


I'm heading to my cousin's place in Pt. Pleasant on the New Jersey Shore for the weekend. Will hang out on the beach, eat fried oreos on the boardwalk and sit on my dad's bench. I didn't get to go last summer, so I'm really looking forward to it. I can smell the cotton candy and salty smelling wood planks already.

Also can I just say that I'm lovin the Night Court marathon on TV Land.
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Sign, Sign, Everywhere a Sign

Thursday, August 11, 2005

I often feel the need to write snide or snarky comments underneath badly written or just plain corny signs. Today on the subway I spotted an ad for American Apparel that reads "All clothes should be unisex." Unfortunately there were too many witnesses, because I had the urge to write underneath the slogan, bras and thongs too?

At night when waiting for my graduate courses to start I have in the past scribbled on several stupid flyers in the journalism building. I don't mean to be mean to the people who designed these notices, but some are so stupid or grammatically incorrect that I cannot help myself. I'm not the only one either, several people commented on the "need a writing tutor?" sign for being placed in the journalism building in the first place.

Years ago in Connecticut the Mobile gas station near my mother's home had a double wooden sign outside by the pumps declaring "Sell Roses" with a colored rose decal on it. I know they were trying to say that they sell roses inside, thus a "we" would need to be included, so it would read We Sell Roses. Otherwise it looks like it is telling the commuters going by that they should in fact be selling roses. Whenever, I would pass by I'd shake my head at the declaration, Sell Roses, and would say to myself, 'OK let me drop out of college and do that,' lol. The sign appeared outside for about a year too.

There was also an M&M sign near Wendy's that used "You're" instead of "Your." I mean these things had to be printed and approved by several people and then put up, did nobody catch that? Some screening process.
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Blog Readers Up 45%

Tuesday, August 9, 2005

One-sixth of the total U.S. population read weblogs in the first quarter, according to a report found in Red Herring.

U.S. blog readership in the first quarter jumped 45 percent to 49.5 million people, suggesting the blogosphere is becoming increasingly alluring to online advertisers.

Last week, Technorati announced that it had measured 14.2 million blogs, 55 percent of them active (read more)

Update: Critically ill woman gets liver phew!
I posted about her need for a new liver, and luckily the Manhattan publicist Shari Kurzrok got a lifesaving liver transplant over the weekend - but not through the frantic, controversial media blitz her friends and family launched. You can view the entire article HERE

New Blog: My coworker just started his own blog, Waxing the Sasquatch He always sends out fun links and news to everyone at work, so I'm sure it will be entertaining.

iPod Your Baby

(I want to get this for my little cousin).
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Have you ever noticed?

Thursday, August 4, 2005

that none of the movie voice overs during the coming attractions are female? It's only those few guy voices, saying something like "First there was this or that and now this fall ..." I have never heard a female do one of those hyped up previews not even for the romantic comedies. It just dawned on me though while watching the Sneak Peaks on one of my DVDs, which annoy me when you sometimes can't even skip them. On video tapes you could at least do that.

It looks like I'll be adding another TV show DVD set to my collection . I think Jane Curtain and John Lithgow are such great comedians, especially together in 3rd Rock from the Sun. Although it annoyed my dad that the aliens did not have any special powers. Click on the image for the official site with special features. I also recently found out that someone is getting me Fraggle Rock on DVD too, yay! That was like the only kids show that I enjoyed growing up, before going right to sitcoms.

Speaking of DVDs my first review as a staff writer at DVDFanatic.com is up! I was sent The Muppet's Wizard of Oz DVD so check out my online review
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